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I Don’t Believe Rape Is Inevitable Or Natural. If I Did, I Would Have No Reason To Be Here. If I Did, My Political Practice Would Be Different Than It Is. Have You Ever Wondered Why We [women] Are Not Just In Armed Combat Against You? It’s Not Because There’s A Shortage Of Kitchen Knives In This Country. It Is Because We Believe In Your Humanity, Against All The Evidence.

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I Don’t Believe Rape

Andrea Dworkin

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I Don’t Believe Rape Is Inevitable Or Natural. If I Did, I Would Have No Reason To Be Here. If I Did, My Political Practice Would Be Different Than It Is. Have You Ever Wondered Why We [women] Are Not Just In Armed Combat Against You? It’s Not Because There’s A Shortage Of Kitchen Knives In This Country. It Is Because We Believe In Your Humanity, Against All The Evidence.

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