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I Could Never Have Pictured Myself Writing A Book When I Was 25 Years Old. My Mom Was An English Teacher But I Wasn't That Way Growing Up.

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Tony Dungy

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I Could Never Have Pictured Myself Writing A Book When I Was 25 Years Old. My Mom Was An English Teacher But I Wasn't That Way Growing Up.

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Once A Player Joins Our Team, Our Priority Is To Teach Him, Not Worry About The Player We Didn't Select.

For Some Reason The Football Coach Of A Major College Program Is Seen As One Of The Leaders Of The Campus. And Some Way We Have To Let Our Young People Know That That Leader Can Look Like Anyone.

If You're Just Saying, Hey, I'm Doing This. I'm Working To Make Money. I'm Working To Increase My Status. If That's All There Is, I Think You Will Find Out That It's Meaningless.

A Good Leader Gets People To Follow Him Because They Want To, Not Because He Makes Them.

We Spent Our Whole Married Life In The Ultra-competitive World Of Professional Football, Lauren And I Had Always Tried To View It Through God's Eyes. As Much Fun As It Was To Be Winning, We Tried Not To Get Caught Up In It. We Knew That Our Family Life And Our Faith Walk Were More Important.

I Talk To Our Players About Life And Situations And Doing The Right Thing All The Time.

I Need To Treat Everybody Fairly, But Fair Doesn't Always Mean Equal.

It's About The Journey--mine And Yours--and The Lives We Can Touch, The Legacy We Can Leave, And The World We Can Change For The Better.

What Will People Remember Us For? Are Other People’s Lives Better Because We Lived? Did We Make A Difference? Did We Use To The Fullest The Gifts And Abilities God Gave Us? Did We Give Our Best Effort, And Did We Do It For The Right Reasons?

We Have A Whole Generation Of Men Who Don't Understand How Much They Mean To Their Kids.

I Just Think Winners Win. And Guys Who Won All The Way Through High School And College, The Best Player At Every Level, They Have A Way Of Making Things Happen And Winning Games.

But There's No Substitute For A Full-time Dad. Dads Who Are Fully Engaged With Their Kids Overwhelmingly Tend To Produce Children Who Believe In Themselves And Live Full Lives.

Remember That Mentor Leadership Is All About Serving.

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(offensive Coach) Paul Hackett Realized That Joe Montana Knew More About The Offense Than He Did, But When The Meeting Was Over, Paul Saw That Joe Had Taken Three Pages Of Notes. He Documented Exactly How Paul Wanted To Run The Play, As Well As All Of The Basics Of It And Its Details. That's What A Professional Does.

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I Would Want America To Know Our Kids Need Us. Spend As Much Time With Your Kids As You Can. Enjoy Them. Be With Them. Hug Your Children; You Never Know When It Will Be The Last Time.

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Your Life Has Been Intentionally Designed By God To Have A Uniquely Significant And Eternal Impact On The World Around You.

Take A Moment To Think About Your Answer To This Question: Am I Prepared To Have Great Success And Not Get Any Credit For It?

God’s Definition Of Success Is Really One Of Significance-the Significant Difference Our Lives Can Make In The Lives Of Others. The Significance Doesn’t Show Up In Won-loss Records, Long Resumes, Or The Trophies Gathering Dust On Our Mantels. It’s Found In The Hearts And Lives Of Those We’ve Come Across Who Are In Some Way Better Because Of The Way We Lived.

When I Was Young, I Didn't Like To Read. I Would Have Much Rather Been Outside Doing Something Than Been Inside Reading About It.

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That's The Difference Between The Ncaa And The Nfl Right Now. They've Got To Step Up And Say, 'we're Going To Do The Right Thing. We're Going To Hire Qualified People. We're Going To Hire The Best Man For The Job Regardless Of What Boosters Or Anyone Else Has To Say.'

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Don't Fear Failure. Fear Being Successful At Things That Don't Matter

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Keeping Ridiculous Hours Doesn't Mean You'll Be Successful.

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If We Have Trouble Hearing Him, He Will Faithfully Work In Our Lives Until We Are Pointed In The Direction He Wants Us To Go.

Football Is A Vocation And An Opportunity For Ministry. But It's Not A Life.

And One Game, As We Know, Can Cost You A Lot.

How You Use The Opportunities Your Given To Affect The World Around You Will Determine The Legacy You Leave Behind.

If Someone Needs Help, I Can Offer Advice. I'm Not Always Right And People Don't Always Listen.

The First Step Toward Creating An Improved Future Is Developing The Ability To Envision It.

I Realized That I Needed To Be More Like The Shepherd Than The Hired Hand In Protecting My Team.

I Was Able To Look At Football As Something That God Was Allowing Me To Do, Not Something That Should Define Me. I Couldn't Take My Identity From This Sport.

And As A Football Coach In The National Football League, I Know For Sure That It's Going To End Someday.

Integrity Doesn't Come In Degrees: Low, Medium, Or High. You Either Have Integrity Or You Don't.

Did You Know That Nearly One In Three Children Live Apart From Their Biological Dads? Those Kids Are Two To Three Times More Likely To Grow Up In Poverty, To Suffer In School, And To Have Health And Behavioral Problems.

The Regular Season Games Are Much More Intense. And Also, I Believe That In 16 Games, Some Teams Separate Themselves. The Good Teams Separate Themselves From The Not-so-good Teams. The Longer The Season Is, The Bigger That Separation Will Get.

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Pain Prompts Us To Change Behavior That Is Destructive To Ourselves Or To Others. Pain Can Be A Highly Effective Instructor.

If We Lose Sight Of People, We Lose Sight Of The Very Purpose Of Leadership.

The First Step Toward Creating An Improved Future Is Developing The Ability To Envision It. Vision Will Ignite The Fire Of Passion That Fuels Our Commitment To Do Whatever It Takes To Achieve Excellence. Only Vision Allows Us To Transform Dreams Of Greatness Into The Reality Of Achievement Through Human Action. Vision Has No Boundaries And Knows No Limits. Our Vision Is What We Become In Life.

Once We Had Become Locked In On A Schedule, He (coach Denny Green) Often Created A Disruption (artificial Adversity) To That Schedule Just To See How Guys Would Respond.

At The End Of The Day, The Only People A One Voice Doctrine Silences Are Those Who Should Be The Most Loyal.

Don't Worry About Your Platform; Focus On Your Impact.

There Are Two Schools Of Thought. You Can Be Basic And Spend All Your Time On What Your Opponents Are Going To Do. Or, You Can Be Very Multiple And Complex, Put A Lot Of Doubt In Your Opponents' Minds And Create Problems For Them With The Volume Of Things You Do.

As A Father Of Seven Kids, And Been A Kid Myself At One Point, I Realize You Don't Always Make The Best Decisions Every Time Out. And Life Is A Learning Experience.

We Only Wanted To Pay Significant Sums To Keep Truly Special Players.

Nothing Does More To Lubricate The Rough Spots Than A Good Dose Of Encouragement.

Integrity Is What You Do When No One Is Watching; Its Doing The Right Thing All The Time, Even When It May Work To Your Disadvantage.

You Never Know What's Going To Happen. My Mother Was An English Teacher. If Someone Had Told Her That I Was Going To Write A Book, She Would Never Have Believed That. So You Can Never Say Never.

You Can Have An Impact Anywhere You Are.

When I Was Younger I Only Read Sports Books. I Loved The Biographies That Told How Athletes Developed. When I Got Into Coaching, I Did Start To Read More Instructional Books, But I Was Always More Interested In The People Behind The Ideas.

Everybody Needs Encouragement, Even When Things Are Going Well.

We Wanted Guys Who Had Been Productive In College, And We Made It A Point To Pick Performance Over Potential.

Nothing Is More Deflating To Morale Than To Have A Poor Outcome Pinned On Someone Who Doesn't Deserve It. It Lacks Integrity And Overvalues The Outcome At The Expense Of The People As Well As The Process.

I Enjoy Talking To Young People, And Talking To People About Helping Young People. That Part Is Not A Chore. It's Pretty Fun, And Something I Like To Do Because I Think It's Important.

I Wouldn’t Have Taken Him. Not Because I Don’t Believe Michael Sam Should Have A Chance To Play, But I Wouldn’t Want To Deal With All Of It. It’s Not Going To Be Totally Smooth Things Will Happen.

God Allows Us To Feel Pain For A Reason: To Protect Us.

Part Of Our Purpose In Life Is To Build A Legacy – A Consistent Pattern Of Building Into The Lives Of Others.

Avoidance Doesn’t Solve Anything; It Merely Serves As A Temporary Salve.

I Love Coaching Football, And Winning A Super Bowl Was A Goal I've Had For A Long Time. But It Has Never Been My Purpose In Life. My Purpose In Life Is Simply To Glorify God. We Have To Be Careful That We Don't Let The Pursuit Of Our Life's Goals, No Matter How Important They Seem, Cause Us To Lose Sight Of Our Purpose. I Coach Football. But The Good I Can Do To Glorify God Along The Way Is My Real Purpose.

There Are Weaknesses That You Have To Understand And It Takes A Lot Of Discipline For The Players To Be Able To Play It Effectively And Have Confidence In What They're Doing.

False Modesty Is An Attempt To Tear Yourself Down. True Humility Focuses More On Build Up Others.

What's Important Is Not The Uniform Or The Number, And It's Not What Team You Play For Or Whether Anyone Else Sees Your Value; It's Who You Are On The Inside. And When You're In Christ, That's Never Going To Change.

The Biggest Thing You Need To Be Successful With It Is A Quarterback Who Wants To Be Involved In The Decision-making Process And Not Just Merely Want To Execute Plays Sent In To Him.

You Can’t Always Control Circumstances. However, You Can Always Control Your Attitude, Approach, And Response.

The Lord Has A Plan. We Always Think The Plans Are A, B, C And D, And Everything Is Going To Be Perfect For Us And It May Not Be That Way, But It's Still His Plan.

I Needed To Do My Current Job Well, Keep Preparing, And Wait On God's Timing. I Needed To Trust His Leadership Rather Than Try To Force An Outcome I Wanted.

You Don't Win On Emotion. You Win On Execution.

Michael Vick Is A Work In Progress. I Think He Really Is Wanting To Do The Right Thing. I Think The Philadelphia Eagles Have Been A Great Organization For Him. He's Had Some Ups And Downs. He Still Has To Learn To Not Put Himself In, Maybe Bad Situations, In Terms Of Personal Life And Friends, And That Kind Of Thing. But All In All, I Think He's Growing Every Day.

Chuck Noll Knew How He Could Help People. He Was A Teacher. He Was A Guy That Was Very Good At Selecting People, Getting Them To Fit In. He Wasn't The Guy That Was Going To Sit There And Motivate You, Intrinsically. That Wasn't What He Was Best At. So He Hired People That Were Good At That.

Hard Work And Togetherness. They Go Hand In Hand. You Need The Hard Work Because It's Such A Tough Atmosphere... To Win Week In And Week Out. You Need Togetherness Because You Don't Always Win, And You Gotta Hang Though Together.

I Was Not Asked Whether I Would Have A Problem Having Michael Sam On My Team. I Would Not.

If You Want To Make A Difference In The Lives Of The People You Lead, You Must Be Willing To Walk Alongside Them, To Lift And Encourage Them, To Share Moments Of Understanding With Them, And To Spend Time With Them, Not Just Shout Down At Them From On High.

If We Do What We Do Without Panicking, We Can Accomplish Great Things.

I Never Wanted Our Players To Think The Super Bowl Was The Ultimate. I Always Talk About 'yes, We're Going To Win, But What Are We Going To Do As We're Winning? What Are We Going To Do After We Win?' Winning The Super Bowl Is Not The Destination. It's Not An End Point. It's What You Do From Here.

Anyone Who's A Parent Dreads That Call In The Middle Of The Night. I Have Four Grown Children And I Still Dread It.

We Have A Number Of Difficulties Facing Our Nation, But I Believe Fatherlessness Is Right At The Top Of The List.

First, There Is No Typical Grief Cycle, And Second, It's Not Something I Went Through. I'm Still Grieving.

The Truth Is That Most People Have A Better Chance To Be Uncommon By Effort Than By Natural Gifts. Anyone Could Give That Effort In His Or Her Chosen Endeavor, But The Typical Person Doesn't, Choosing To Do Only Enough To Get By.

People Look At Me And See A Calm, Cool Guy On The Sidelines And I Want Them To Know That My Christian Faith Affects My Coaching And Everything I Do.

I Always Liked To Be Fairly Simple Because You Could Get More Players Ready To Play Quickly. If You Lose Players To Free Agency, Injuries, Etc., It Is Easier To Get Young Players Ready To Play In A Less Complex System.

I Hired Top-notch People, Trusted Them To Do Their Jobs, And Then Came To Grips With The Fact That I Wouldn't Be Coaching As Much.

Sometimes I Think God Wants There To Be A Circus So We Can Show There's Another Way To Respond.

I Could Never Have Pictured Myself Writing A Book When I Was 25 Years Old. My Mom Was An English Teacher But I Wasn't That Way Growing Up.

I Had 10 To 12 Close Buddies Who I Played Ball With All The Way From Elementary To High School. That Is Where I Learned To Compete.

I Enjoy Watching Football On Tv. Many Times I Can Visualize The Whole Field, Even On The Tv Screen, Because I Still Know Enough About What The Teams Are Doing.

The Game Has Changed Since The '70s As More Coaches Have Looked At Ways To Make It Tougher On Defenses. But I'm Glad My Career Turned Out The Way It Did - I Would Have Never Gotten A Chance To Learn The Defensive Side Of The Ball.

Others First. Whatever Your Corporate Mission, Paint A Clear And Compelling Picture That Others Can Understand And Embrace. State Your Mission In Terms That Appeal To Your Team's Best Instincts. Persuade And Empower As If You Are Leading And Mentoring Volunteers.

If I Can't Get The Captains To Respond Appropriately And Show The Leadership I Expect, How Is Anyone Else Going To Respond?

My Dad Took Me To A High School Basketball Game And This Very, Very Famous Coach In Michigan, By The Name Of Lofton Greene - He Was A Guy That My Dad Was Familiar With. He Was From Our Hometown. And I Watched The Game And I Said I Didn't See This Guy Doing A Lot Of Coaching. And My Dad Told Me, Well, It's Just Like A Teacher - Which He Was - He Said If You Do A Good Job Teaching During The Week, When They Take The Test On Friday, That's Not The Time You Have To Do A Lot Of Demonstrative Things.

Long-term Success Requires Faith-faith That Your Efforts To Plan And Execute The Process Will Lead To The Desired Outcome.

I Think I've Got A Responsibility To Be Home A Little Bit More, Be Available To My Family A Little Bit More And Do Some Things To Help Make Our Country Better. I Don't Know What That Is Right Now, But We'll See.

Stubbornness Is A Virtue If You Are Right.

You Have Gifts, Abilities, And Dreams No One Else Has.

They Were Unwillingly To Give 100 Percent If They Didn't Personally Think It Was Important. What You Don't Understand Is The Champions Know It's All Important.

I Learned From Chuck Noll In Pittsburgh That Speed And Explosiveness On Defense Is The Way To Build A Team. Both Are Difficult For Your Opponent To Assimilate In Practice And Then In Games It Is Even Harder To Match.

Success Is Uncommon And Not To Be Enjoyed By The Common Man. I'm Looking For Uncommon People Because We Want To Be Successful, Not Average.

I Found That While Life Drags On When You're Losing, It Marches On When You're Winning.

He's Probably The Hardest-working Guy I've Been Around Who Has Great Ability. Overachievers Work Hard Because They Have To. Peyton Has Rare Talent, But Chooses To Push Himself Like He Doesn't.

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