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Be Sure Don't Let People's Telling You, You Are Pretty, Puff You Up; For You Did Not Make Yourself, And So Can Have No Praise Due To You For It. It Is Virtue And Goodness Only, That Make The True Beauty.

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Be Sure Don't Let People's Telling You, You Are Pretty, Puff You Up; For You Did Not Make Yourself, And So Can Have No Praise Due To You For It. It Is Virtue And Goodness Only, That Make The True Beauty.

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Platonic Love Is Platonic Nonsense.

I Never Knew A Man Who Deserved To Be Thought Well Of For His Morals Who Had A Slight Opinion Of Our Sex In General.

Though A Censure Lies Against Those Who Are Poor And Proud, Yet Is Pride Sooner To Be Forgiven In A Poor Person Than In A Rich One; Since In The Latter It Is Insult And Arrogance; In The Former, It May Be A Defense Against Temptations To Dishonesty; And, If Manifested On Proper Occasions, May Indicate A Natural Bravery Of Mind, Which The Frowns Of Fortune Cannot Depress.

Smatterers In Learning Are The Most Opinionated.

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Those Commands Of Superiors Which Are Contrary To Our First Duties Are Not To Be Obeyed.

The English, The Plain English, Of The Politest Address Of A Gentleman To A Lady Is, I Am Now, Dear Madam, Your Humble Servant: Pray Be So Good As To Let Me Be Your Lord And Master.

The Most Innocent Heart Is Generally The Most Credulous.

Every Thing Is Pretty That Is Young.

Women Love Those Best (whether Men, Women, Or Children) Who Give Them Most Pain.

The First Step In Achieving Prosperity And Wealth Is Learning To Appreciate What You Already Have.

Women's Eyes Are Wanderers, And Too Often Bring Home Guests That Are Very Troublesome To Them, And Whom, Once Introduced, They Cannot Get Out Of The House.

I Have My Choice: Who Can Wish For More? Free Will Enables Us To Do Everything Well While Imposition Makes A Light Burden Heavy.

O! What A Godlike Power Is That Of Doing Good! I Envy The Rich And The Great For Nothing Else!

Love Is Not A Volunteer Thing.

Great Allowances Ought To Be Made For The Petulance Of Persons Labouring Under Ill-health.

The Coyest Maids Make The Fondest Wives.

A Good Man, Though He Will Value His Own Countrymen, Yet Will Think As Highly Of The Worthy Men Of Every Nation Under The Sun.

Love Will Draw An Elephant Through A Key-hole.

Men Know No Medium: They Will Either, Spaniel-like, Fawn At Your Feet, Or Be Ready To Leap Into Your Lap.

Reverence To A Woman In Courtship Is Less To Be Dispensed With, As, Generally, There Is But Little Of It Shown Afterwards.

The World Is Not Enough Used To This Way Of Writing, To The Moment. It Knows Not That In The Minutiae Lie Often The Unfoldings Ofthe Story, As Well As Of The Heart; And Judges Of An Action Undecided, As If It Were Absolutely Decided.

The World, The Wise World, That Never Is Wrong Itself, Judges Always By Events. And If He Should Use Me Ill, Then I Shall Be Blamed For Trusting Him: If Well, O Then I Did Right, To Be Sure!--but How Would My Censurers Act In My Case, Before The Event Justifies Or Condemns The Action, Is The Question.

Tis A Barbarous Temper, And A Sign Of A Very Ill Nature, To Take Delight In Shocking Any One: And, On The Contrary, It Is The Mark Of An Amiable And A Beneficent Temper, To Say All The Kind Things One Can, Without Flattery Or Playing The Hypocrite,--and What Never Fails Of Procuring The Love And Esteem Of Every One; Which, Next To Doing Good To A Deserving Object Who Wants It, Is One Of The Greatest Pleasures Of This Life.

A Stander-by Is Often A Better Judge Of The Game Than Those That Play.

Nothing Can Be More Wounding To A Spirit Not Ungenerous, Than A Generous Forgiveness.

Who Would Not Rather Be The Sufferer Than The Defrauder?

The Laws Were Not Made So Much For The Direction Of Good Men, As To Circumscribe The Bad.

There Would Be No Supporting Life Were We To Feel Quite As Poignantly For Others As We Do For Ourselves.

Calamity Is The Test Of Integrity.

Handsome Husbands Often Make A Wife's Heart Ache.

Nothing In Human Nature Is So God-like As The Disposition To Do Good To Our Fellow-creatures.

Hope Is The Cordial That Keeps Life From Stagnating.

All Angry Persons Are To Be Treated, By The Prudent, As Children.

Tis Certain That Morality Is An Indispensable Requisite Of True Religion, And There Can Be None Without It. But It Would Become The Pride And Ignorance Of Pagans Only, To Magnify It, As The Whole Of What Is Necessary.

All That Hoops Are Good For Is To Clean Dirty Shoes And Keep Fellows At A Distance.

Where Words Are Restrained, The Eyes Often Talk A Great Deal.

What We Look Upon As Our Greatest Unhappiness In A Difficulty We Are Involved In, May Possibly Be The Evil Hastening To Its Crisis, And Happy Days May Ensue.

Marriage Is The Highest State Of Friendship. If Happy, It Lessens Our Cares By Dividing Them, At The Same Time That It Doubles Our Pleasures By Mutual Participation.

An Acquaintance With The Muses, In The Education Of Youth, Contributes Not A Little To Soften Manners. It Gives A Delicate Turn To The Imagination And A Polish To The Mind.

Chastity, Like Piety, Is A Uniform Grace.

The Companion Of An Evening, And The Companion For Life, Require Very Different Qualifications.

The World, Thinking Itself Affronted By Superior Merit, Takes Delight To Bring It Down To Its Own Level.

The Grace That Makes Every Grace Amiable Is Humility.

Love Gratified Is Love Satisfied, And Love Satisfied Is Indifference Begun.

The Nature Of Familiar Letters, Written, As It Were, To The Moment, While The Heart Is Agitated By Hopes And Fears, On Events Undecided, Must Plead An Excuse For The Bulk Of A Collection Of This Kind. Mere Facts And Characters Might Be Comprised In A Much Smaller Compass: But, Would They Be Equally Interesting?

Parents Sometimes Make Not Those Allowances For Youth, Which, When Young, They Wished To Be Made For Themselves.

Parents Cannot Expect Advice To Have The Same Force Upon Their Children As Experience Has Upon Themselves.

Love Is A Blazing, Crackling, Green-wood Flame, As Much Smoke As Flame; Friendship, Married Friendship Particularly, Is A Steady,intense, Comfortable Fire. Love, In Courtship, Is Friendship In Hope; In Matrimony, Friendship Upon Proof.

Those Who Respect Age, Deserve To Live To Be Old, And To Be Respected Themselves.

People Of Little Understanding Are Most Apt To Be Angry When Their Sense Is Called Into Question.

Honeymoon Lasts Not Nowadays Above A Fortnight.

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Of What Violences, Murders, Depredations, Have Not The Epic Poets, From All Antiquity, Been The Occasion, By Propagating False Honor, False Glory, And False Religion?

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A Widow's Refusal Of A Lover Is Seldom So Explicit As To Exclude Hope.

For Tutors, Although They May Make Youth Learned, Do Not Always Make Them Virtuous.

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Beauty Is An Accidental And Transient Good.

It Is Better To Be Thought Perverse Than Insincere.

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The Difference In The Education Of Men And Women Must Give The Former Great Advantages Over The Latter, Even Where Geniuses Are Equal.

The Cause Of Women Is Generally The Cause Of Virtue.

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Twenty-four Is A Prudent Age For Women To Marry At.

What Likelihood Is There Of Corrupting A Man Who Has No Ambition.

In All Works Of This, And Of The Dramatic Kind, Story, Or Amusement, Should Be Considered As Little More Than The Vehicle To The More Necessary Instruction.

A Good Man Will Not Engage Even In A National Cause, Without Examining The Justice Of It.

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That Cruelty Which Children Are Permitted To Show To Birds And Other Animals Will Most Probably Exert Itself On Their Fellow Creatures When At Years Of Maturity.

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Honesty Is Good Sense, Politeness, Amiableness,--all In One.

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We Have Nothing To Do, But To Choose What Is Right, To Be Steady In The Pursuit Of It, And Leave The Issue To Providence.

The Richest Princes And The Poorest Beggars Are To Have One Great And Just Judge At The Last Day Who Will Not Distinguish Betweenthem According To Their Ranks When In Life But According To The Neglected Opportunities Afforded To Each. How Much Greater Then, As The Opportunities Were Greater, Must Be The Condemnation Of The One Than Of The Other?

He Only Who Gave Life Has A Power Over It.

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Over-niceness May Be Under-niceness.

If The Education And Studies Of Children Were Suited To Their Inclinations And Capacities, Many Would Be Made Useful Members Of Society That Otherwise Would Make No Figure In It.

Necessity May Well Be Called The Mother Of Invention But Calamity Is The Test Of Integrity.

Some Children Act As If They Thought Their Parents Had Nothing To Do, But To See Them Established In The World And Then Quit It.

Women Are So Much In Love With Compliments That Rather Than Want Them, They Will Compliment One Another, Yet Mean No More By It Than The Men Do.

Every Scholar, I Presume, Is Not, Necessarily, A Man Of Sense.

If A Woman Knows A Man To Be A Libertine, Yet Will, Without Scruple, Give Him Her Company, He Will Think Half The Ceremony Between Them Is Over; And Will Probably Only Want An Opportunity To Make Her Repent Of Her Confidence In Him.

Tired Of Myself Longing For What I Have Not

Virtue Only Is The True Beauty.

Marriage Is A State That Is Attended With So Much Care And Trouble, That It Is A Kind Of Faulty Indulgence And Selfishness To Livesingle, In Order To Avoid The Difficulties It Is Attended With.

People Who Act Like Angels Ought To Have Angels To Deal With.

All Human Excellence Is But Comparative — There Are Persons Who Excel Us, As Much As We Fancy We Excel The Meanest.

What A World Is This! What Is There In It Desirable? The Good We Hope For So Strangely Mixed, That One Knows Not What To Wish For!and One Half Of Mankind Tormenting The Other, And Being Tormented Themselves In Tormenting!

A Prudent Person, Having To Do With A Designing One, Will Always Distrust Most When Appearances Are Fairest.

It Is Much Easier To Find Fault With Others, Than To Be Faultless Ourselves.

I Am Forced, As I Have Often Said, To Try To Make Myself Laugh, That I May Not Cry: For One Or Other I Must Do.

Superstitious Notions Propagated In Infancy Are Hardly Ever Totally Eradicate, Not Even In Minds Grown Strong Enough To Despise The Like Credulous Folly In Others.

From Sixteen To Twenty, All Women, Kept In Humor By Their Hopes And By Their Attractions, Appear To Be Good-natured.

The Life Of A Good Man Was A Continual Warfare With His Passions.

Women Are Sometimes Drawn In To Believe Against Probability By The Unwillingness They Have To Doubt Their Own Merit.

The Woman Who Thinks Meanly Of Herself Is Any Man's Purchase.

When We Reflect Upon The Cruelties Daily Practised Upon Such Of The Animal Creation As Are Given Us For Food, Or Which We Ensnarefor Our Diversion, We Shall Be Obliged To Own That There Is More Of The Savage In Human Nature Than We Are Aware Of.

All Our Pursuits, From Childhood To Manhood, Are Only Trifles Of Different Sorts And Sizes, Proportioned To Our Years And Views.

The Unhappy Never Want Enemies.

We Are All Very Ready To Believe What We Like.

The Person Who Is Worthiest To Live, Is Fittest To Die.

Prejudices In Disfavor Of A Person Fix Deeper, And Are Much More Difficult To Be Removed, Than Prejudices In Favor.

Men And Women Are Brothers And Sisters; They Are Not Of Different Species; And What Need Be Obtained To Know Both, But To Allow For Different Modes Of Education, For Situation And Constitution, Or Perhaps I Should Rather Say, For Habits, Whether Good Or Bad.

What Pity That Religion And Love, Which Heighten Our Relish For The Things Of Both Worlds, Should Ever Run The Human Heart Into Enthusiasm, Superstition, Or Uncharitableness!

Spiritual Pride Is The Most Dangerous And The Most Arrogant Of All Sorts Of Pride.

Romances In General Are Calculated Rather To Fire The Imagination, Than To Inform The Judgment.

Vast Is The Field Of Science... The More A Man Knows, The More He Will Find He Has To Know.

Youth Is Rather To Be Pitied Than Envied By People In Years Since It Is Doomed To Toil Through The Rugged Road Of Life Which The Others Have Passed Through, In Search Of Happiness That Is Not To Be Met With In It And That, At The Highest, Can Be Compounded For Only By The Blessing Of A Contented Mind.

A Man Who Flatters A Woman Hopes Either To Find Her A Fool Or To Make Her One.

The First Vice Of The First Woman Was Curiosity, And It Runs Through The Whole Sex.

Women Do Not Often Fall In Love With Philosophers.

Men Will Bear Many Things From A Kept Mistress, Which They Would Not Bear From A Wife.

A Departure From The Truth Was Hardly Ever Known To Be A Single One.

I Know Not My Own Heart If It Be Not Absolutely Free.

Those We Dislike Can Do Nothing To Please Us.

What The Unpenetrating World Call Humanity, Is Often No More Than A Weak Mind Pitying Itself.

Old Men, Imagining Themselves Under Obligation To Young Paramours, Seldom Keep Any Thing From Their Knowledge.

Marry First, And Love Will Come After Is A Shocking Assertion; Since A Thousand Things May Happen To Make The State But Barely Tolerable, When It Is Entered Into With Mutual Affection.

But Let Not Those Worthy Young Women, Who May Think Themselves Destined To A Single Life, Repine Over-much At Their Lot; Since, Possibly, If They Have Had No Lovers, Or Having Had One, Two, Or Three, Have Not Found A Husband, They Have Had Rather A Miss Than A Loss, As Men Go.

Love Before Marriage Is Absolutely Necessary.

Before Marriage

There Is But One Pride Pardonable; That Of Being Above Doing A Base Or Dishonorable Action.

Let A Man Do What He Will By A Single Woman, The World Is Encouragingly Apt To Think Marriage A Sufficient Amends.

There Is A Good And A Bad Light In Which Every Thing That Befalls Us May Be Taken. If The Human Mind Will Busy Itself To Make Theworst Of Every Disagreeable Occurrence, It Will Never Want Woe.

For The Human Mind Is Seldom At Stay: If You Do Not Grow Better, You Will Most Undoubtedly Grow Worse.

Shame Is A Fitter And Generally A More Effectual Punishment For A Child Than Beating.

The Little Words In The Republic Of Letters, Like The Little Folks In A Nation, Are The Most Useful And Significant.

There Is A Pride, A Self-love, In Human Minds That Will Seldom Be Kept So Low As To Make Men And Women Humbler Than They Ought To Be.

All Women, From The Countess To The Cook-maid, Are Put Into High Good Humor With Themselves When A Man Is Taken With Them At Firstsight. And Be They Ever So Plain, They Will Find Twenty Good Reasons To Defend The Judgment Of Such A Man.

To What A Bad Choice Is Many A Worthy Woman Betrayed, By That False And Inconsiderate Notion, That A Reformed Rake Makes The Best Husband!

Whom We Fear More Than Love, We Are Not Far From Hating.

A Beautiful Woman Must Expect To Be More Accountable For Her Steps, Than One Less Attractive.

Happy Womens Day

Quantity In Diet Is More To Be Regarded Than Quality. A Full Meal Is A Great Enemy Both To Study And Industry.

She Who Is More Ashamed Of Dishonesty Than Of Poverty Will Not Be Easily Overcome.

Why Do We Procrastinate? P - Postponing Life R - Resisting Change O - Overly Cautious C - Contemplating Course Of Action R - Reasoning And Justifying A - Afraid Of Success S - Summoning Up Some Courage T - Trouble Moving Forward I - Inability To See The Outcome N - Not Able To Trust In Your Abilities To Make Decisions A - Attempting To Control The Situation T - Time To Reflect On Your Motives E - Erodes Progress

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There Cannot Be Any Great Happiness In The Married Life Except Each In Turn Give Up His Or Her Own Humors And Lesser Inclinations.

Sorrow Makes An Ugly Face Odious.

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