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As Painful And Destructive As They Are, The Hateful Comments Allow Us To Map The Underlying Beliefs Of Many People In A Way We've Never Been Able To Before. It's Almost As If All Of The Negativity And Misogyny Needs To Come To The Surface So We Can Fully Understand What It Is, And How Deep It Goes, Before We Can Begin To Shift It. Of Course, I Wish It Weren't There.

-Monica Lewinsky

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As Painful And Destructive

Monica Lewinsky

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As Painful And Destructive As They Are, The Hateful Comments Allow Us To Map The Underlying Beliefs Of Many People In A Way We've Never Been Able To Before. It's Almost As If All Of The Negativity And Misogyny Needs To Come To The Surface So We Can Fully Understand What It Is, And How Deep It Goes, Before We Can Begin To Shift It. Of Course, I Wish It Weren't There.

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