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As More Women Have Gone Into The Workforce, They Find It Harder To Be A Good Mother And A Good Worker. When I Go Into The Office, I Always Feel Guilty. I'm Thinking About The Children. When I'm At Home, I'm Thinking About My Work. So You're Always Under Tremendous Pressure. Women Feel Very Stressed. They Feel Like They're Working Harder And Harder And Harder. And Society Is Not Really Helping Them.

-Carolyn Maloney

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Carolyn Maloney

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As More Women Have Gone Into The Workforce, They Find It Harder To Be A Good Mother And A Good Worker. When I Go Into The Office, I Always Feel Guilty. I'm Thinking About The Children. When I'm At Home, I'm Thinking About My Work. So You're Always Under Tremendous Pressure. Women Feel Very Stressed. They Feel Like They're Working Harder And Harder And Harder. And Society Is Not Really Helping Them.

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