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Almost Half Of The Turkish Population Believes It Is Not Legitimate To Criticize The Government. Interestingly, This Correlates With The Number Of Supporters Of Erdogan's Government.

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Almost Half Of The Turkish Population Believes It Is Not Legitimate To Criticize The Government. Interestingly, This Correlates With The Number Of Supporters Of Erdogan's Government.

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