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A Lot Of What I've Been Learning In The Last Two Years Is Due To Therapy - About My Sexuality, Why Things Go Wrong, Why Relationships Haven't Worked. It Isn't Anything To Do With Anybody Else; It's To Do With Me.

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A Lot Of What I've Been Learning In The Last Two Years Is Due To Therapy - About My Sexuality, Why Things Go Wrong, Why Relationships Haven't Worked. It Isn't Anything To Do With Anybody Else; It's To Do With Me.

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