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A Home Life Where It's So Full Of So Many Rigorous Ideas About The Way Things Should Be, This Word "should," I Think Is Absolutely Toxic To Children. It Hurts Their Personalities, It Hurts Their Points Of View In The World, It Hurts Their Ability To Be Open And Caring And Curious. An Element Of Allowance In A Family, Is, I Think, Really A Positive Thing.

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A Home Life Where

Mark Ruffalo

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A Home Life Where It's So Full Of So Many Rigorous Ideas About The Way Things Should Be, This Word "should," I Think Is Absolutely Toxic To Children. It Hurts Their Personalities, It Hurts Their Points Of View In The World, It Hurts Their Ability To Be Open And Caring And Curious. An Element Of Allowance In A Family, Is, I Think, Really A Positive Thing.

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