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If Your Friend Is Critical [of Your Work], You Have To Have A Very Thick Skin And A Thick Skin Is Something That Only Builds Up After It's Callused For Awhile.

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If Your Friend Is Critical [of Your Work], You Have To Have A Very Thick Skin And A Thick Skin Is Something That Only Builds Up After It's Callused For Awhile.

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