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You Poor, Deluded Woman...do You Believe There Is Any Such Thing As Love?...you're Living An Illusion. Do You Believe The Words Of Love They Whisper In The Ears Of Penniless Women Like Us?

-Nawal El Saadawi

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You Poor, Deluded Woman...do

Nawal El Saadawi

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You Poor, Deluded Woman...do You Believe There Is Any Such Thing As Love?...you're Living An Illusion. Do You Believe The Words Of Love They Whisper In The Ears Of Penniless Women Like Us?

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