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When You Love Someone You Do Not Love Them All The Time, In Exactly The Same Way, From Moment To Moment. It Is An Impossibility. It Is Even A Lie To Pretend To. And Yet This Is Exactly What Most Of Us Demand. We Have So Little Faith In The Ebb And Flow Of Life, Of Love, Of Relationships. We Leap At The Flow Of The Tide And Resist In Terror Its Ebb. We Are Afraid It Will Never Return. We Insist On Permanency, On Duration, On Continuity; When The Only Continuity Possible, In Life As In Love, Is In Growth, In Fluidity - In Freedom

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Leo Buscaglia

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When You Love Someone You Do Not Love Them All The Time, In Exactly The Same Way, From Moment To Moment. It Is An Impossibility. It Is Even A Lie To Pretend To. And Yet This Is Exactly What Most Of Us Demand. We Have So Little Faith In The Ebb And Flow Of Life, Of Love, Of Relationships. We Leap At The Flow Of The Tide And Resist In Terror Its Ebb. We Are Afraid It Will Never Return. We Insist On Permanency, On Duration, On Continuity; When The Only Continuity Possible, In Life As In Love, Is In Growth, In Fluidity - In Freedom

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Tact Is Rubbing Out Another's Mistake Instead Of Rubbing It In.

You Can Only Give Away What You Have ... If You Have Love, You Can Give It. If You Don't Have It, You Don't Have It To Give.

Don't Look Over People's Shoulders. Look In Their Eyes. Don't Talk At Your Children. Take Their Faces In Your Hands And Talk To Them. Don't Make Love To A Body, Make Love To A Person.

The Oppposite Of Love Is Not Hate - It's Apathy.

It's Amazing - You May Not Realize It, But So Much Of What You Are Not Is Because You Are Literally Standing In Your Own Way Of Becoming. And What I'm Pleading With You About Is, Get The Hell Out Of Your Own Way.

Love Is Always Open Arms. If You Close Your Arms About Love You Will Find That You Are Left Holding Only Yourself.

Let Go. Why Do You Cling To Pain? There Is Nothing You Can Do About The Wrongs Of Yesterday. It Is Not Yours To Judge. Why Hold On To The Very Thing Which Keeps You From Hope And Love?

What We Need To Know About Loving Is No Great Mystery. We All Know What Constitutes Loving Behavior; We Need But Act Upon It, Not Continually Question It. Over-analysis Often Confuses The Issue And In The End Brings Us No Closer To Insight. We Sometimes Become Too Busy Classifying, Separating, And Examining, To Remember That Love Is Easy. It's We Who Make It Complicated.

Life Is Our Greatest Possession And Love Its Greatest Affirmation.

Love Is Not A Thing, It Is Not Lost When Given. You Can Offer Your Love Completely To Hundreds Of People And Still Retain The Same Love You Had Originally.

I Think We Need To Teach Children The Importance Of Others, And That They Cannot Grow In This World Without Taking In Others. The More Worlds They Take In, These Unique Worlds, The More They Can Become. We Need To Teach Them To Trust Others Again, Because We're All Frightened To Death Of Each Other. We're Building Higher And Higher Walls, Stronger And Stronger Locks. Tear Down The Walls! Every Day I See How We're Distrusting And It Hurts.

Everybody Needs A Hug. It Changes Your Metabolism.

Only The Weak Are Cruel. Gentleness Can Only Be Expected From The Strong.

Joy Is Always An Integral Part Of Loving. There Is Joy In Every Act Of Life, No Matter How Menial Or Repetitive. To Work In Love Is To Work In Joy. To Live In Love Is To Live In Joy... Why Not Choose Joy?... Why Not Live In Joy?

There Are Many Miracles In The World To Be Celebrated And, For Me, Garlic Is The Most Deserving.

A Wonderful Realization Will Be The Day You Realize That You Are Unique In All The World. The World Is An Incredible Unfulfilled Tapestry, And Only You Can Fulfill That Tiny Space That Is Yours.

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