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The Biggest Problem I Had - And The Biggest Problem Teenagers Have - Is Not How They Dress, How They Look Or How They Act Or Talk. It's How They See Themselves - Their Self-esteem. In The Tenth Grade, I Realized I Am Who I Am. I've Got Big Ears And Big Feet. I Can Etiher Sulk Around Or I Can Be Happy With Who I Am. The Minute I Decided To Be Confident With Who I Was, All That Other Stuff Stopped. It's All In The Way You Carry Yourself.

-Clay Aiken

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The Biggest Problem I

Clay Aiken

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The Biggest Problem I Had - And The Biggest Problem Teenagers Have - Is Not How They Dress, How They Look Or How They Act Or Talk. It's How They See Themselves - Their Self-esteem. In The Tenth Grade, I Realized I Am Who I Am. I've Got Big Ears And Big Feet. I Can Etiher Sulk Around Or I Can Be Happy With Who I Am. The Minute I Decided To Be Confident With Who I Was, All That Other Stuff Stopped. It's All In The Way You Carry Yourself.

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