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It Is Not That Women Are Really Smaller-minded, Weaker-minded, More Timid And Vacillating, But That Whosoever, Man Or Woman, Lives Always In A Small, Dark Place, Is Always Guarded, Protected, Directed And Restrained, Will Become Inevitably Narrowed And Weakened By It.

-Charlotte Perkins Gilman

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Charlotte Perkins Gilman

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It Is Not That Women Are Really Smaller-minded, Weaker-minded, More Timid And Vacillating, But That Whosoever, Man Or Woman, Lives Always In A Small, Dark Place, Is Always Guarded, Protected, Directed And Restrained, Will Become Inevitably Narrowed And Weakened By It.

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A Man's Honor Always Seems To Want To Kill A Woman To Satisfy It.

Not Woman, But The Condition Of Woman, Has Always Been A Doorway Of Evil.

The One Predominant Duty Is To Find One's Work And Do It.

And Woman Should Stand Beside Man As The Comrade Of His Soul, Not The Servant Of His Body.

The Children In This Country Are The One Center And Focus Of All Our Thoughts. Every Step Of Our Advance Is Always Considered In Its Effect On Them-on The Race. You See, We Are Mothers, She Repeated, As If In That She Had Said It All.

The Mother- Poor Invaded Soul- Finds Even The Bathroom Door No Bar To Hammering Little Hands.

A Man Does Not Have To Stay At Home All Day, In Order To Love It; Why Should A Woman?

When The Mother Of The Race Is Free, We Shall Have A Better World, By The Easy Right Of Birth And By The Calm, Slow, Friendly Forces Of Evolution.

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Eternity Is Not Something That Begins After You Are Dead. It Is Going On All The Time.

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No Matter What The Belief, If It Had Modestly Said, 'this Is Our Best Thought, Go On, Think Farther!' Then We Could Have Smoothly Outgrown Our Early Errors And Long Since Have Developed A Religion Such As Would Have Kept Pace With An Advancing World. But We Were Made To Believe And Not Allowed To Think. We Were Told To Obey, Rather Than To Experiment And Investigate.

The Child Learns More Of The Virtues Needed In Modern Life-of Fairness, Of Justice, Of Comradeship, Of Collective Interest And Action-in A Common School Than Can Be Taught In The Most Perfect Family Circle

Maternal Instinct, Merely As An Instinct, Is Unworthy Of Our Superstitious Reverence.

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Concepts Antedate Facts.

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