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Power Doesn't Have To Be On Such A Big Scale For Powerful Things To Occur. Within Your Own Home, You Can Be A Powerful Woman As A Mother, Influencing Your Children's Lives.

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Jill Scott

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Power Doesn't Have To Be On Such A Big Scale For Powerful Things To Occur. Within Your Own Home, You Can Be A Powerful Woman As A Mother, Influencing Your Children's Lives.

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African American

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I Believe The Relationship You Have With Your Government Is Not So Different To A Love Relationship.

Love Relationship

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Everything Starts With Writing. I Heard Nikki Giovanni And Was Blown Away. I Just Thought 'wow'; She Was Writing From A Black Girl's Perspective, And The Imagery Was So Vivid That I Started Doing Spoken Word.

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Feeling Beautiful

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Heartbreak Was The Impetus To Me Writing Poems And Music In The First Place. Over The Years, I Had My Heart Broken So Badly That If I Didn't Find A Way To Get All The Pain Out, I Was Going To Lose My Mind. I Was Crazy! Like, Wanting To Slash Tires And Smash Car Windows. Crazy! I Was So Hurt That I Had To Write.

Beauty Is An Understanding Of What You Have, And It's Forgiving Yourself Of What You Don't Have, And Appreciating All Of It.

I Never Expected The White House To Be Warm, And The Artwork On The Walls Was Extraordinary. I Am A Fan Of The Louvre, But Being There It Was Almost Just As Good.

I Think All Any Artist Or Person Wants To Do Is Grow Spiritually, Emotionally, Professionally And Mentally.

I See Myself Being A Great-grandmother At My Great-grandson's Graduation From A School That Has My Name On It.

Most Of The Time, Particularly With This Record, 'the Light Of The Sun,' I Really Just Been Standing In Front Of A Microphone And Blacking Out Musically, You Know. I'd Come Back A Couple Hours Later And There's Six Songs From Beginning To End, You Know? I Don't Know What I'm Going To Say. I Don't Know How I'm Going To Say It.

When Jett Puts My Face In His Hands And Tells Me, 'mommy You're So Pretty' Or Smells Me, It's So Wonderful.

Whatever Happens In My Life, Whether I Stand Up Or I Fall Down, Whatever The Case, I'm Going To Use It In My Art. Why? Because I'm An Artist And I Have To.

I've Done A Lot Of Fighting In My Time, And I'm Down To Do Some More. I Don't Want To, But You Know, There's Just Certain Things That You Can't Sit Down And Take.

If I Feel Really Ugly Or Unhappy, Sometimes I'll Choose Bright Colors So They'll Make Me Feel Good. Yellows, Pinks, Light Blues And Orange. I Just Want To Feel Good All The Time If I Can. And Colors And Hairstyles And All That Kind Of Helps Out.

There Are Black Marriages That Are Still Going Strong 40 Years Later. You Hear So Many Myths That There Aren't Any People Making It, But There Are. As Long As There Are Some, There's Hope.

I Don't Necessarily Think Of Myself As A Feminist, But I'm A Whole Person.

A Lot Of The Girls I Grew Up With Were Pregnant By The Time They Were 16. I Just Was Lucky.

Seriously, In America There Are More Big, Curvy Girls Than There Are Little Girls, And Men Love Us, Too.

I'm A World-class People Watcher. I Like To Watch People's Body Movements, Their Expressions. It Says So Much About Them.

I Truly Loved Being Pregnant And Feeling What Was Going On Inside My Body And Watching It Change. It's Difficult To Recoup, But Still Amazing Nonetheless. I Would Have Another One.

God Is Ever Present. He's In Every Breath, In Every Step. He's Here, Always, Always.

I've Been Enjoying Playing With Fashion - Gold Grills And Diamond Grills Have Just Become A Part Of That.

I'm The Girl That Waits For The Director To Say, 'i Like That,' Or 'can You Boost It Up?,' Or 'can You Pull It Down?' I'm That Kind Of Actor. I Started In Theater, So That's The Feedback That I'm Accustomed To. It's The Feedback That I Really Thrive Off Of.

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What I See Is Trying To Make Sure That Everybody Thinks You Have More Than What You Actually Have. What’s The Point If You Actually Don’t Have It? If You Don’t Have It, Then You Don’t Have It. Have What You Have. Enjoy That . . . The Craft Is Everything. Don’t Be Afraid Of Not Being The Wealthiest Person In The Room. Be The Smartest Person In The Room. Be The Slickest Person In The Room. Be The Most Creative Person In The Room. Be The Most Entertaining Person In The Room. Just Be In The Room.

I Always Wanted To Be A Renaissance Woman, Do As Many Things As I Possibly Can And Hopefully Do Them Well Or Don't Do Them At All.

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One Of The Reasons My Ex-husband And I Broke Up Is That He Stopped Eating My Food.

When I Auditioned With Anthony Minghella (the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency), I Loved The Audition Process, Although I Hated Him For It. Because He Had Me Audition Six Times For That Role. Maybe Three Hours Each. He Wanted To See How Quickly I Could Vary.

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