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If You Are Hurt, Whether In Mind Or Body, Don't Nurse Your Bruises. Get Up, And Light-heartedly, Courageously, Good-temperedly, Get Ready For The Next Encounter.

-Emily Post

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If You Are Hurt,

Emily Post

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If You Are Hurt, Whether In Mind Or Body, Don't Nurse Your Bruises. Get Up, And Light-heartedly, Courageously, Good-temperedly, Get Ready For The Next Encounter.

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