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I Think That The Older You Get, The More You Become Your True, Essential Self. You Find The Things That Make You Happy. You Whittle Away The Parts Of Yourself That Mean Less To You.

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I Think That The Older You Get, The More You Become Your True, Essential Self. You Find The Things That Make You Happy. You Whittle Away The Parts Of Yourself That Mean Less To You.

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There Is No More Dramatic Accessory Than A Perfect Lip. It Is The Focus Of The Face And It Has The Power To Define A Woman's Whole Look.

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I Suppose, Yes, I've Been Guilty Of Provocation But It's Also Just Common Sense Marketing - Put A Bottle Of Scent In A Woman's Cleavage, Or Between Her Thighs - And Men Will Notice.

Time And Silence Are The Most Luxurious Things Today.

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I Was The Sensitive, Shy Kid That Was Teased A Lot. I Was Very Definitely Bullied. I Mean, From An Early Age, I Dressed More Like An Adult, You Know, Jackets And Very Slim Trousers And A Raincoat. And I - Even When I Was 7, 8, 9-years-old, Carried An Attache Case To School Because I Just Hated The Sloppiness Of A Book Bag.

September 11th Was A Moment When America Had The Sympathy Of The World.

Women Are Objectified In Our Culture. And More And More, It Takes A Great Deal Of Confidence, Especially As A Woman, To Break The Mold. You Know, You're Afraid That You're Going To Covered In A Magazine As A "fashion Don't." That's Why You See All These Girls On The Red Carpet Looking The Same.

Style For Me Is Some One Who Figures Out Who They Are. What Works On Them. What They Feel Good In And Develops That. Develops Their Character. And The Outer Expression Of Their Character Is What Is Style.

I Don't Want To Find Myself Designing For The Press.

She Needs To Have A Few Drinks And Cry A Little-then She'll Be Perfect.

I'm A Believer In Fate And In Fulfilling Your Destiny. I've Always Had A Kind Of Inner Voice That I Have Learned To Listen To.

Dressing Well Is A Kind Of Good Manners, If You Ask Me. When You're Standing In A Room, Your Effect Is The Same As A Chair's Effect, Or A Sculpture's. You're Part Of Someone's View, You're Part Of That World, And So You Should Dress Well. I Find It's A Show Of Respect To Try To Put On Your Best Face And Look As Good As You Can.

I Think That The Older You Get, The More You Become Your True, Essential Self. You Find The Things That Make You Happy. You Whittle Away The Parts Of Yourself That Mean Less To You.

I'm Very Direct. I Don't Have Tantrums. I Don't Yell Or Shout. I Do Expect An Awful Lot From My Staff, But No More Than I Expect Of Myself.

I Try To Be Nice, I Try To Respect Other People, But Over The Years I've Learned That All This Stuff We Do Is A Bunch Of Crap. That Doesn't Mean It Doesn't Have Its Place. We Are Living In A Material World, So Why Not Live With Something Beautiful?

Fashion Is Very Quick. It's Very Disposable. It's Immediately - It Tells You Exactly Where We Are In Our Culture, Especially Women's Fashion.

We Have The Terminator As Governor, And We Had An Actor As President, So Why Shouldn't We Have A Fashion Designer As A Senator?

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Right Now Everything Is Pumped Up. Cars Look Like Someone Took An Air Pump And Pumped Them Up. They Look Engorged. Lips Pumped Up, Breasts Pumped Up, Everything Is Pumped Up. And It's Also Kind Of Off-putting. It's Sexual But In Such A Hard Way That It's, For Me, Not Sexual At All. Whereas The 1970s, Breasts Were Smaller. People Were Not Wearing Bras. Farrah Fawcett's Sexuality And Sensuality Was A Very Touchable Sexuality. She Was Kissable. She Was Friendly.

I Have A Driver In London Because I Am Slightly Dyslexic And Cannot Drive In The U.k.; After All, The Traffic Runs The Opposite Way To That In The United States.

When You Write A Character And Their Dialogue, You Can't Help Imagining How You Would Be Acting If You Were Them. You Kind Of Have To Relate To All Of Them. It's The Most Personal Thing I've Ever Done.

I'm Extremely Organized. The More Things I Have To Work On And Can Bounce Back And Forth Between, The More Energized I Am.

I'm A Very Serious Person.

If I'm Having A Bad Day I Put On The Very Best Thing I Have. I Polish My Shoes, I Shine Everything Up, Because That Helps Me Get Though The Day. It Helps Me, You Know, It's In A Sense Armor. It Says, Okay, I'm A Mess Inside But You Know What, On The Outside I'm Going To Be Pulled Together, Everything Is Okay.

I Think We Are Becoming More And More Linked, And Before Long, We'll All Be One Culture. It's Happening In Every Field, Not Just Fashion. Actually, I Think The Only Hope For Peace Is If Culture Is Homogenized. Unfortunately, Money Seems To Be The Only Solution To Political Disagreements. If We Are All Linked Through Culture And Trade, It Won't Be Worth Fighting Each Other.

For Fleur De Chine, I Imagined The Romantic And Mysterious Women From Asia's Cinematic Past-from The '30s Femme Fatale In A Cheongsam And Dark Lipstick, To The'60s Hong Kong Heroine Of In The Mood For Love. I Wanted To Capture That Fascinating, Exquisite And Slightly Scandalous Femininity.

Mysterious Woman

First Of All, I Love Women. But I Lust After Beautiful Women In The Way That I Lust After A Beautiful Piece Of Sculpture - This Will Probably Get Me In Trouble - Or A Beautiful Car. I Believe Everyone's On A Sliding Scale Of Sexuality. There Are Moments Where I Am Sexually Attracted To Women. But It Doesn't Overpower My First Impulse; My Lust For Them Is The Same As My Lust For Beauty In All Things.

I Think The 1970s Will Always Be The Decade For Me. Obviously, I Grew Up In That Era, But The Beauty Standard Was Touchable, Kissable.

Part Of My Family Were Ranchers. So You Were Expected To Be Quite Macho. You Weren't Expected To Cry. I Was The Exact Opposite Of That.

I Think You Should Suffer Sometimes To Be Attractive And Beautiful, So I Cut The Clothes Very Slim Because I Like To Feel The Clothes On My Body.

I Think There's Nothing More Painful For Anyone Than Unrequited Love. If You've Ever Had That Kind Of Physical Access To Someone And Then, All Of A Sudden, That Is Denied, And Yet You're Still In Love With That Person, It's Very, Very, Very Painful To Be Around That Person In A Certain Way.

Unrequited Love

I Am A Perfectionist. This Job Is A Total Ego Thing In A Way. To Be A Designer And Say, 'this Is The Way They Should Dress; This Is The Way Their Homes Should Look; This Is The Way The World Should Be.' But Then, That's The Goal: World Domination Through Style.

I Am Not A Person Who Is About Reality. I Am About Enhanced Reality.

What Is Important Is That We Stop And Realize, "okay. This Is Fine. I Can Enjoy That. But What Is Really Important, What I'm Really Going To Take Away With Me From This Life, Is My Connection With Other People.

We Live In A Material World. I'm Not Saying That Beautiful Things Don't Enhance Our Lives. But, In Our Culture, We're Never Happy.

I Like To Just Have Fun And Be Silly And Say Pretty Much Whatever Comes Into My Mind, Do Pretty Much Whatever I Want.

At Home, Off-duty, I Wear T-shirts From Fruit Of The Loom - But I Have Them Tailored.

I Think People Who Are Attracted To The Fashion Industry Are People Who Are Really Insecure And Looking For A Certain Identity.

I'm A Natural-born Boss, I Have To Say. I Just Like To Be Good At Things. Even As A Child, I Was Boss Of My Family.

You Can't Fake Anything. If You're Honest And True And You Love Something, And You Put That Energy Into It, People Can Usually Feel It On The Other Side.

I Do Struggle Because I’m Attracted To Beautiful Things, Yet At The Same Time I Am Actually Very Aware, In Some Sense, Their Lack Of Value And That The Most Important Things In Life Are Your Connections To Other People.

If I Was Ever Going To Become A Good Designer, I Had To Leave America. My Own Culture Was Inhibiting Me. Too Much Style In America Is Tacky. It's Looked Down Upon To Be Too Stylish. Europeans, However, Appreciate Style.

You Should Put On The Best Version Of Yourself When You Go Out In The World Because That Is A Show Of Respect To The Other People Around You.

A Film, Since It Is Primarily A Visual Medium, Should Really Be Like A Silent Film. You Should Be Able To Watch Something And Understand What Was Going On And Use Voice When You Need To Communicate Something You Can't Necessarily Communicate Visually. The Book Is The Opposite. The Book Is An Inner Monologue Which Is Beautiful.

I Believe That When You Really Want To Do Something, You Should Go Ahead And Do It. I Mean, I Feel Fear, But I Never Let That Stop Me.

Yeah. Iʼve Always Felt This Way. I Mean Weʼre Born Alone, We Die Alone. And While Weʼre Here We Are Absolutely, Completely Sealed In Our Own Bodies. Really Weird. Kinda Freaks Me Out To Think About It. We Can Only Experience The Outside World Through Our Own Slanted Perception Of It. Who Knows What Youʼre Really Like. I Just See What I Think Youʼre Like.

Men Don't Wear Fashion Any More Except In Italy And London. Americans Have Lost That.

I Am Tired Of The Cult Of Youth. The Cultural Rejection Of Old Age, The Stigmatization Of Wrinkles, Grey Hair, Of Bodies Furrowed By The Years. I Am Fascinated By Diana Vreeland, Georgia O’keeffe And Louise Bourgeois, Women Who Have Let Time Embrace Them Without Ever Cheating. Society Today Condemns This, Me, I Celebrate It.

But As An Adult Working In The Fashion Industry, I Struggle With Materialism. And I'm One Of The Least Materialistic People That Exist, Because Material Possessions Don't Mean Much To Me. They're Beautiful, I Enjoy Them, They Can Enhance Your Life To A Certain Degree, But They're Ultimately Not Important.

To Me, Beauty And Sadness Are Very Closely Linked. Truly Beautiful Things Make Me Sad Because I Know They Are Going To Fade. When I See A Beautiful 20-year-old Boy Or Girl-and They Are Breathtaking-i Am Filled With A Kind Of Sadness. But Maybe They Are Beautiful Because We Know They Are Not Permanent And They Are In A Kind Of Transition.

My Real Life’s Not Like The Fantasy Tom Ford World – With Naked Girls Pouring Perfume Everywhere. It’s More Staying In And Watching Friends On Television.

When I Read About Young Designers Selling 51 Percent Of Their Company To Someone Else, I Cringe. I Want To Say, 'don't Do It - Call Me First.'

Just Like Girls Need To Learn To Be Comfortable In Heels Before They Go Out In Them For The First Time, A Man Should Try Wearing A Suit Throughout A Normal Day. I Do Most Things In A Suit-and Sometimes Even In A Tuxedo-and So I'm Really Comfortable In One.

It's Hard Not To Be Sexy In A Pair Of High Heels.

Banking Types Should Take Their Cue From Gordon Gekko. Or Pick The Best-looking Banker In Their Firm And Copy Him.

I Haven't Had Any Plastic Surgery - Despite What People Think, This Is My Nose. I Have Had Restylane And Botox, But I Don't Think Of That As Plastic Surgery Any More.

I Think That Monogamy Is Artificial. I Do Not Think It's Something That Comes Naturally To Us.

One Of My Favorite Teams Of All Time Is Fran And Barry. I Just Thought Fran And Barry Last Season Were Just Incredible And They Just Sort Of Went Against All Odds And Were Very Successful.

Style Is Very Different From Fashion. Once You Find Something That Works, Keep It.

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