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I'm Comfortable Only When There's A Mutual Attraction. That's What Anyone Wants. If I Find Out She's Not Attracted To Me, It Brings Down My Level Of Attraction To Her. If I'm Interested And Find Out She's Not, I Tend To Cool Off.

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I'm Comfortable Only When

Nathan Fillion

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I'm Comfortable Only When There's A Mutual Attraction. That's What Anyone Wants. If I Find Out She's Not Attracted To Me, It Brings Down My Level Of Attraction To Her. If I'm Interested And Find Out She's Not, I Tend To Cool Off.

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