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I Know It's Hard For Women To Tap Into That Feeling Of Self-worth. We Need To Get The Message Out That You Are Valued, You Are A Goddess And Don't Forget That.

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I Know It's Hard For Women To Tap Into That Feeling Of Self-worth. We Need To Get The Message Out That You Are Valued, You Are A Goddess And Don't Forget That.

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I'm Grateful For Everything I Have. I'm Grateful For It All. I'm Grateful For Love Most Of All Because I Have A Lot Of It In My Life.

All Of A Sudden One Day I Was Like, I'm Good At This! Oh, Man! People Are Not Giving Me Jobs Because They Feel Sorry For Me! I Am An Actress. I Am A Singer. I Am A Performer. That's What I Do! Once I Started Giving Myself A Little Credit, The Whole World Opened Up.

When I Turned 40, I Was Like, Huh. I Accept Myself More Now. It Was Much More Comforting.

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You Have To Fight For The Things You Want.

You Have Got To Love Yourself First. You Have Got To Be Ok On Your Own Before You Can Be Ok With Somebody Else. You Have Got To Value Yourself And Know That You Are Worth Everything.

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You Can’t Let The Fear Of What People Might Say Or Think Stop You From Doing What You Want To Do Or Else We Would Never Do Anything.

Doing What You Want

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Unconditional Love

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Life Experience

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I Do Know A Lot About Scientology. And I Know About The Practices. I Know All About What The Technology Is And All That Kind Of Stuff. It's Very Helpful.

My Mom Always Told Me That If You Work Hard, You Can Achieve Anything. And It's True. It's One Of The Truest Things Ever.

Beauty Is Only Skin Deep. I Think What's Really Important Is Finding A Balance Of Mind, Body And Spirit. Someone Said To Me Not Too Long Ago, "until You're Twenty, You Have The Face You Are Born With, And After That You Have The Face You Deserve", And I Really Loved That - The Idea That You Wear Who You Are On Your Face.

I Feel I Want To Grow As An Actress And Be Better. I Want To Progress As A Singer And Songwriter, And Produce Movies And Everything. So There'll Be No Time When I Feel I've Done It All.

I Judge People On How They Smell, Not How They Look.

Being On Camera, You Have A Responsibility To Look Good. If You Don't, You'll Hear About It.

My Favorite Holiday Is My Birthday-it's Very Leo.

When I Was In My 20s I Wasn't Sure Of Myself. Now I Can Really Stretch. I Don't Have To Stay In The Box. At This Point I Can Say To Myself, So What If I Fall, So What? I'm Going To Get Back Up.

I Just Never Really Gave Myself Any Credit. And Because Of That, Nobody Else Did Either. You Mirror What The World Mirrors To You.

I Love A Massage And A Bath. I Don't Drink - I'll Have A Sip, But I've Never Been Drunk - And I Don't Smoke. I Envy People Who Have Those Releases. They Just Have A Drink Or A Cigarette, And They Feel Better. I Have To Brave It Through The Whole Day On My Own.

I Can Only Speak For Myself, And Hope People Hear My Words And See Me On Television Speaking For Myself. And, Hopefully, They'll Be Able To Make Their Own Judgment. And At The End Of The Day, I Just Want My Work To Speak For Itself.

The End Of The Day

It's A Shame To Call Somebody A 'diva' Simply Because They Work Harder Than Everybody Else.

I Was Always A Singer And A Dancer, And I Always Wanted To Be An Actress. For Me, It's All Just One Thing.

Women Should Never Go Without Earrings. Passing On Them Is An Opportunity Missed.

I Have My Own High Standards For What I Want In A Partner And How I Want To Be Treated. I Bring A Lot To The Table. I'm Not Talking About Material Things But What I Have To Offer As A Person - Love And Loyalty And All The Things That Make A Good Relationship.

Good Relationship

I Am A Strong Believer In Kissing Being Very Intimate, And The Minute You Kiss, The Floodgates Open For Everything Else.

I'm Very Comfortable With Being Productive. I Like Doing Things, And I Like Creating Things. As Far As Being Powerful, I Guess I'm Comfortable With It. It's Not Really How I Think Of Myself.

Puffy Produced Four Of The Tracks On The Album. Those Are The Four Songs That Are Collaborations Between Puffy And Me. And He Gives Me My Space To Work Even When We Work Together, Like With My Producer And My Vocal Coach.

Because The Truth Is, Nobody Knows What's Best For You Better Than You Do. You Have To Really Sit Still And Ask Yourself: What Do I Want? Does This Feel Right? What Should I Do? I Realized I Had To Go Back And Do What I Had Always Done. Listening To My Gut Was Just As Important As Listening To The Advice Of Others, And Only I Knew What Was Best For Me.

I Don't Regret What I've Been Through. I've Had Ups And Downs, Super Highs And Some Really Low Lows. I've Been So Blessed That I Could Never Say, "i Wish This Didn't Happen." It's Part Of Who I Am. There's Nothing In My Life That's So Ugh.

Once You Have A Lot Of Success, You Become A Target In Many Ways.

I Was Always Very Comfortable With Who I Was. Confident. I’ve Never Looked At [my Body] In A Negative Way.

I Feel Like I Haven't Started Yet. I'm Looking Forward To The Ninth Album, The Thirtieth Movie.

Looking Forward

You Know, Maybe I Was Just Born In The Wrong Time, But I Love All Things Romantic. Puffy Understands That. For My Last Birthday, He Covered My Hotel Room Floor With Rose Petals And Had Flowers And Candles All Over The Room.

It's Like Every Day Is The Worst Day Of Your Life. And You're Trapped And You're Scared And You Have To Portray Those Emotions In Every Take And Really Take Yourself To Those Places. (about Her Role As An Abused Wife In Enough.

I Had Such A Reputation, And It Was Sad Because I Felt Like It So Didn't Represent Who I Really Was.

You Have To Stand Up And Say, 'there's Nothing Wrong With Me Or My Shape Or Who I Am; You're The One With The Problem!'

I Think Some People Just Use Pregnancy As An Excuse To Really Pig Out. To Be Really Disgusting. I Am Just Going To Eat This Is My Opportunity. I Waited For This My Whole Life. I Was Not One Of These People.

I'm Deeply Grateful To Live And Work In This Country And To The United States For Opening Its Arms To Me The Way It Has. I Mean I Think My Attitude As An Aussie Coming Here - I've Been Coming Here For A While Now, I've Been Coming Here For About 12 Or 13 Years - Is That This Country Has Afforded Me And My Family Work And Security. For That, I'm Forever Grateful.

I Think Everything Needs To Be Played Real, For Reality's Sake, For Truth. And That Is The Drama And The Comedy. When You Do That, It's Funnier. And When You Do That, You Really Do Hit The Emotional Beats. I Do It The Same Way As I Do A Drama. I Just Play It For Truth, And Then Maybe Have A Little Bit Of Fun With It Sometimes.

It Makes Me Laugh When She Says She [salma Hayek] Got Offered Selena, Which Was An Outright Lie. If That's What She Does To Get Herself Publicity Than That's Her Thing.

I Like To Maintain A Certain Sense Of Fantasy. At Home, Do I Have The Full Hair And Makeup? No. But I Might Have The Nice Dress On.

Even As An Actor, When You Have A Kissing Scene It's Still Weird.

I Think With Romantic Comedies It's A Lot About Tone, Because Different Romantic Comedies Have Different Tones.

I'm Passionate, I'm Driven At My Job And I Also Am Compassionate With People. We All Think We Can Save Somebody That We Love.

My Hair And Makeup People And Stylists Have Changed Over The Years, But They All Know Sometimes I Want To Do Marilyn, And On Another Day I Want To Do Jackie O. Though Sometimes I Look Back And Have To Say, "wow! What Were We Thinking There?"

I Feel Like, When We're Kids, You're Sold Into This Fairy Tale Of What Love Is. That Prince Charming's Gonna Come Along And Save You And You're Gonna Live Happily Ever After. They're Gonna Rescue Me From The Bronx, And We're Gonna Go Off And Live In A Castle Somewhere And It's Gonna Be Awesome. He's Gonna Love Me Forever, And I'm Gonna Love Him Forever, And It's Gonna Be Real Easy. And It's So Different Than That.

But From The Time I Was Very Little, It Was Something I Would Do All The Time, Just Sing, Dance And Act. So It Wasn't Something That Was Fake Or Contrived As I Got Older.

I Would Never Speak About Specifics In My Own Relationships Because I Think It's Tacky. If You Seriously Want To Know, Listen To The Music.

J. Lo Is Also An Homage To My Fans. That's What Fans Call Me On The Streets, And I Like It. So Giving The Album This Title Is My Way Of Telling Them That This Is For Them, In Appreciation Of Their Support.

You Can't Take Life For Granted.

Taking Life For Granted

You've Gotta Do Things That Make You Happy. As Women, We Tend To Give Away A Lot. We Take Care Of A Lot Of People, And We Can't Forget To Take Care Of Ourselves.

I Remain An Eternal Optimist About Love. I Believe In Love.

I'm Not Stupid. I Would Like To Have Some Businesses That Grow So I Won't Have To Be Out There On The Road When I'm 44.

They're Making Me Out To Be A Serial Marrying Person Or Something. I'm Laughing At That.

I Look To The Women Who Epitomize Old Hollywood Glamour, Like Rita Hayworth. She Had A Way Of Making Sophisticated Clothes Look Sexy Without Ever Seeming Sleazy Or Cheap.

This Film [the Cell] Certainly Is Not Meant For The Girls Who Sing Along With My Songs.

With Hard Work, Living A Good Life, You Can Do Anything. You Will Be Rewarded For That.

The Best Part Of Having Two Babies At Once, A Son And A Daughter, Is Mostly Everything. You're Just Having That Feeling Of Love Inside You All The Time And Motherhood Is Such A Fulfilling Place To Be. I Kind Of Wish It Would Have Happened To Me Earlier In My Life.

I've Always Had A Huge Fear Of Dying Or Becoming Ill. The Thing I'm Most Afraid Of, Though, Is Being Alone, Which I Think A Lot Of Performers Fear. It's Why We Seek The Limelight - So We're Not Alone, Were Adored. Were Loved, So People Want To Be Around Us. The Fear Of Being Alone Drives My Life.

As You Get Older And As You Experience And Go Through Different Things You Realize You Have To Set Boundaries. You Have To For Your Life. You Have To Say This Is Ok And This Is Not Ok. This Is What I Do For A Living And This Is My Life. It's The Only One I Get And So I Have To Set Boundaries.

You Like The Way I Dress The Way I Wear My Hair Show Me Off To All Your Friends Baby, I Don't Care Just As Long As You Tell Them Who I Am Tell Them I'm The One That Made You Give A Damn

For Me, Fashion Is An Expression Of Who I Am Right In That Moment - So What You're Seeing Is What I'm Influenced By Now.

If You Kiss On The First Date And It's Not Right, Then There Will Be No Second Date. Sometimes It's Better To Hold Out And Not Kiss For A Long Time. I Am A Strong Believer In Kissing Being Very Intimate, And The Minute You Kiss, The Floodgates Open For Everything Else.

I'm Bad At A Ton Of Things. I'm Bad At Sitting Still. I'm Bad At Basketball. My Worst Habit Is That While People Are Talking, I Will Already Be Thinking Three Other Things. It's Rude. Sometimes If The Person Is Very In Tune And They Notice, They're Like "where Are You Right Now?"

Whenever It Feels Uncomfortable To Tell The Truth, That's Often The Most Important Time To Tell It.

Telling The Truth

Love Scenes Are Always Weird, Though. They're Always Uncomfortable. It's All The People Around Who Make It Uncomfortable. It's Not Usually The Actor You're Working With, Because They Usually Feel Just As Weird As You Do!

If You Don't Love Yourself, You Can't Love Anybody Else. And I Think As Women We Really Forget That.

When It's Easy, It's Great. But When Something Bad Happens Is When You Really Learn. It Causes Self-examination, It Causes You To Take A Look At Yourself. You Naturally Start Analyzing. It's Not That You're Wrong; It's That Sometimes You Just Need To Make Adjustments.

Look At Yourself

People Think Because I'm Shaped This Way, I'm Scandalous

Maybe I'll Have Something Out By Christmas, Maybe Not. I Don't Know, I'm Really Trying To Take My Time And Do What Feels Right. (about The Next Step In Her Music Career)

If You Ask Me, I'd Like To Become The First Female President. That Would Be Really Cool. The First Thing I Would Do Is Redecorate The White House, It Doesn't Look Very Cozy.

In The Past, Love For Me Has Always Meant Forever, And Sure, You Still Nurse Some Of Those Fantasies, But I Don't Try To Force It Anymore. I Hung On To My Fairy-tale Ideals For A Long Time. But Where I Am Now, What I've Been Through, There Are No Rules. There Are Lots Of Ways It Can Turn Out.

You Mirror What The World Mirrors To You.

By Nature I Am Not Tough, Believe It Or Not.

I Don't Look At People And See Color And Race. I See Inside.

When I See Puff In A Video Kissing Someone, It's Freaky And I Know It's Freaky For Him To See Me Do A Movie Love Scene, But As Far As Him Forbidding Me To Do Them, That's Bull.

I Remember Listening To An Interview With Beyonce And She Talked About How She And Her Husband, Jay-z, Have Always Made It A Point To Have The Conversation About Them Be About Their Music, Not About Their Business, Not About Their Personal Business.

Sometimes You Have To Explore The Darkness To Get To The Light And Get Back To Who You Are.

Until You Value Yourself Enough And Love Yourself Enough To Know That, You Can't Really Have A Healthy Relationship.

I've Always Been Asked The Question, "what Is It With Australian Men?" It's Weird Because Most Of My Friends Here [in The United States] Are American Men. I Think There's Cultural Differences. It's A Really American Thing To Kind Of Wax Your Chest. As A Man It's Like, "get Rid Of That Unsightly Hair!" In Australia It's Like, "mate, What Are You Doing? Why Would You Do That? Doesn't That Hurt?" So There's A Few Little Differences That Keep Us.

People Assume I'm Out There Having This Great Life, But Money Doesn't Erase The Pain. When You're Young You Barrel Through Life, Making Choices Without Thinking Of Repercussions. A Few Years Down The Line, You Wake Up In A Certain Place And Wonder How The Hell You Got There.

Nobody Wants To Hear Celebrity Complain

Just Because You Dress Sexy Doesn't Mean You're A Bad Girl; It Just Means You Know How To Dress.

I Could Serve Coffee Using My Rear As A Ledge.

A Lucky Model Who's Been Given A Lot Of Opportunities I Just Wish She [cameron Diaz] Would Have Done More With.

I'm A Hopeless Romantic And Passionate Person When It Comes To Love.

I've Been Married Twice And I've Tried To Make It Work, But I Feel I Haven't Had A Real Marriage Yet.

And I Love The Idea Of Spending The Whole Day In Bed With My Lover.

When I Am Wrong, I Will Learn The Lesson And Move On To Face Other Challenges. For Me, That's What Creating Your Own Life Is. Doing Your Best Work While Being Your Best Self.

I Only Do What My Gut Tells Me To. I Think It's Smart To Listen To Other People's Advice, But At The End Of The Day, You're The Only One Who Can Tell You What's Right For You.

No Matter Where I Go I Know Where I Came From.

It's Not That I Didn't Love Myself Before. Sometimes We Don't Realize That We Are Compromising Ourselves. To Understand That A Person Is Not Good For You, Or That That Person Is Not Treating You In The Right Way, Or That He Is Not Doing The Right Thing For Himself - If I Stay, Then I Am Not Doing The Right Thing For Me. I Love Myself Enough To Walk Away From That Now.

Always Remember, You Will Live, You Will Love, You Will Dance Again.

Mommy. It's Just The One Thing You Don't Want To Mess Up.

I Went To Catholic School For 12 Years And Went To Church Every Sunday. I May Not Do That Anymore But I Think It Gave Me A Good Basis. I've Also Explored Things On My Own Different Philosophies And Spiritual Teachings And I Use What Works For Me.

If Anyone Can Figure Out How To Balance My Celebrity And My Dual Careers In Music And Film, It's Me. I Don't Feel Frightened; I Feel Challenged.

Doubt Is A Killer. You Just Have To Know Who You Are And What You Stand For.

What You Realize Is It's Not About Financial Success As An Artist. A Lot Of Actors And Actresses, Producers, Writers, And The Creative People In The Business Realize That. It's Not About That. Yeah, We All Want To Be Successful, But We All Just Want To Create And We Want To Tell The Stories. We Want To Continue Creating The Opportunities To Be Able To Continue Doing What We Love. So, At The End Of The Day, I Feel Like It's A Win-win For Everybody To Be Able To Make These Independent Films.

People Equate Sexy With Promiscuous. They Think That Because I'm Shaped This Way, I Must Be Scandalous - Like Running Around And Bringing Men Into My Hotel Room. But It's Just The Opposite.

I've Played More Villains Than Anything Else. And I Love Playing Villains, Because I Can Just Be Evil And Do Whatever I Want.

I'm Very Comfortable With Being Productive. I Like Doing Things, And I Like Creating Things.

Creating Things

When You're Younger, You Don't Realize You Have Limitations And That You Are The One Who Has To Take Care Of Yourself. Nobody Else Is Going To Do It For You. And So, With All Of That Time, Maturity And Realizations, I'm In A Much Better Place To Be The Best That I've Ever Been And To Continue Growing As A Person And As An Artist.

Growing As A Person

Obviously, Throughout My Career, I've Always Felt Like Certain Things Come To Me At The Right Time. When I Look At The Work That I've Done, It's Always Very Indicative Of Where I Was In My Life At The Moment.

You Get To A Point In Life Where It Suddenly Occurs To You That You Don't Need All The Things You Once Thought You Did--that It's Really, Well, Convoluted. My Life Feels Overblown Sometimes, And I Don't Want It To Be. I Want It To Be Streamlined. So I'm Living A Much More Unscripted Life Now Than I Have In A Long Time.

Just Making Sure That They Both Felt Equally Loved Is What Was Tough About The Twins.

I Really Felt The Growth Of Myself As A Human Being, As A Person [becoming A Mother].

I Know That Being Seen As A Role Model Means Taking Responsibility For All My Actions. I Am Human, And Of Course, Sometimes I Make Mistakes. But I Promise That When I Fall, I Get Back Up.

For Me, Love Is The Never-ending Question. It Is Confusing. It Is The Answer, But It Is Also Inundated With Contradictions And Complications.

You Have To Remember The Value Of Your Individuality - That You Have Something Special And Different To Offer That Nobody Else Can.

Men Really Disgust Me If They Don't Have A Nice Smile, Nice Lips And Nice Teeth...they Have Too Many Disgusting Habits - Like Scratching Themselves All The Time. And It's Really Weird How Guys Think That Passing Gas Is The Funniest Thing In The World. They Love To Do That Thing In Front Of Girls And Laugh About It.

Obviously No Parent Does Everything Right. It's This Weird Thing That Happens Where You Are Striving To Be As Good As You Can Be So That They Turn Out Well. And That Requires That You Be A Really Great, Evolved, Aware Person In Every Moment. Which Is Pretty Awesome. But It's Also Putting Tremendous Pressure On Yourself--which Is Why Women Feel So Guilty!

I Think That's What A Partnership Is - You Take The Positives From Both People And Incorporate Them.

Love To Me Is Someone Telling Me, 'i Want To Be With You For The Rest Of My Life, And If You Needed Me To I'd Jump Out Of A Plane For You.'

Jennifer Lopez Has Been Very Much In The News Because Of Her Divorce From Marc Anthony, Also A Top Singer, A Top Player In Latin Music, Her Joining The Cast Of Judges On "american Idol." But The Music Has Not Been At The Forefront.

Don't Push Your Weaknesses, Play With Your Strengths

I Like To Maintain A Certain Sense Of Fantasy In My Life.

I Came From The Bronx And A Certain Background. I Worked Really Hard. I Kept My Focus On The Right Things.

I Had A Lovely Pregnancy. It Was A Beautiful, Magical Time For Us.

I Am A Lover. And With My Kids I Am Even Softer. I Realize With My Son, I Have To Sometimes Be Tough, Especially Now When He's Pushing Boundaries. With My Daughter, I Can Get A Little Stern With Her And She Pretty Much Will Listen.

When You Have Children, You Realise You Can't Plan Anything. There's No Plan A, No Plan B. Life Will Happen And You Will Go With It.

I Had A Healthy Appetite [being Pregnant]. I Got More Healthy As Time Goes On, And They Grew. I Never Let Myself Go.

My Main Priority Now Is That My Kids Are Happy; That's My Number-one Focus In Life. Are These Little People Happy, Content, And Getting Everything They Need? Everything After That Is Secondary. Before, My Work Was My Main Priority -- Even Above Myself.

I Felt About Life And The Way I Felt About My Children Was So Deep And Profound. It Was The First Time I'd Felt Anything Like That. I Knew As An Artist That It Was Going To Make A Huge Difference In Everything That I Did.

I Grew Up Walking Around Naked In My House. My Mom Was Like That, And My Sisters.

He Wouldn't Talk To Me For Two Months. I Was Like, 'what An Ass**le.' Actors Are Used To Getting Their Way And To Treating Women Like Objects. "[on Wesley Snipes After She Reports He Made Unreturned Passes At Her]

But The Idea Of Taking Things And Mixing Them Together Is What I Do In My Music. I Take Hip-hop, R&b, Pop, Dance, Funk And Soul And Mix It All Together To Get My Own Sound.

I Love Improv-ing, You Know, From Very Early On When I Started Acting The School That I Went To And Everything Was Very Big On Ad-libbing And Improv-ing And Messing Things Up, So I Feel Very Comfortable Doing Stuff Like That.

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